Secrets Of Success

Have you ever wondered how to achieve success? I bet you did and so did I. Since I suffer from a lack of motivation from time to time, I decided to find a guide that would help me recharge my depleted incentive. Is there any better motivation than achieving success? I think not. Let Richard St. John enlighten you how to do it.

Firstly, it's all about the passion. Whatever you do, do it for love and not for money. If you do it for love, money comes anyway. Another story is that loving what you do is not enough. You still need to work hard because hard work always pays off. In other words, practice, practice and practice... Just don't forget to have fun at the same time! Needless to say that you have to try your best to be great at whatever you decide to do in your life in order to achieve success. It's also advisable to focus on just one thing. Rejecting shyness and self-doubt is a must, though. Just believe in yourself! Lastly, surround yourself with people who are going to support you. At a pinch, enjoy watching the video:

Make people want to listen to you

I suppose that you all got the impression that somebody didn't want to listen to you at least once in a lifetime. You may think that it's all about being interesting, good-looking or well thought of. As a matter of fact, controlling what you say and the way you speak is more important here. There are common mistakes called "7 deadly sins of speaking" which you should avoid so that people want to listen to you.
First one is gossiping. In other words, speaking ill of somebody who is not present. Do you know why is it so important not to do that? Because one can be afraid that you will do the same thing to him after 5 minutes or so. Second one is negativity. People don't like being surrounded by sceptics and pessimists. There isn't much more that can be said about it. Then, judging people. It's really hard for somebody to enjoy their conversation when they know they are going to be judged afterwards. Another "sin" that should be avoided is complaining. Many of you do that, don't you? Unfortunately, it's what really makes a conversation weary, unless you have the subject to complain about ;). Fifth mistake is finding excuses which means blaming everything around, except you. Penultimate reason that makes people ignore you is embroidery. Some of you probably may argue if it's already a lie or not, but it doesn't really matter. The thing is that as soon as people realise that you like embellishing your stories, they won't trust you. Finally, dogmatism is what you should be aware of. In other words, presenting your opinions as if they were facts. For more information, I recommend watching the video below:

THE ARABIC LANGUAGE

Hello guys. This time I will show you quite a peculiar video in which a guy speaking Japanese tells you about the Arabic language. Don't worry! He provides you with English subtitles... You should know that Arabic is spoken in 24 countries throughout the Middle East and Africa as a native language. If we include all the dialects, Arabic has around 280 million speakers. Arabic belongs to the Semitic branch of the Afroasiatic family like Hebrew. One of the problems that all students of Arabic encounter is known as diglossia. It is time to face the truth. The language people speak in their daily life differs from the language you learn at your university. There are many dialects of Arabic and they can be entirely different from one another. The solution is Modern Standard Arabic which is taught at universities as the language of books, news and business. It is also a good starting point to learn any dialect, if you want to communicate with people around you in your daily life. Another difficulty is that vowels are not written in Arabic. In other words, it means that you have to know a word, even if you just want to read it aloud... In the video below you will find basic words and phrases in Arabic. Enjoy.

Does the language we speak change our thinking?

Do the languages we speak shape the ways we think? It is a long-standing question that has been asked by many people. According to Charlemagne “to have another language is to possess a second soul”. Does it make any sense to you? In fact, even though the topic used to be unstudiable, we may found now evidence which proves that languages we speak influence our thinking.

As a first example, Lera Boroditsky notes that there’s a language which requires from its speakers to stay constantly oriented. Speakers of that language don’t rely on words like left and right as speakers of most languages we can think of do. They need to be aware of cardinal directions the whole time so that they can speak their language properly. Is it a feature that speakers of other languages have? I dare to doubt and so does Lera Boroditsky asking students to point out south-east with their eyes closed. It turns out that people she asked were not consistent at all while pointing their direction. On the other hand, a young speaker of the language that requires being oriented can do it effortlessly.

Another example relates to “how do we think about time”. For instance, in English we say “the best ahead of us” and “the worst behind us” and we tend to organise time from left to right whereas speakers of Arabic and Hebrew would do it from right to left. There are also languages which don’t have left-right concept. Speakers of such a language would then orient time from east to west or the other way round. 

These are only two examples. If you are looking for more, I would strongly recommend watching the video below: